After much discussion, Aeyoung and I have decided that parting ways with the Army (at least the active duty portion) is the best decision for us. I was really on the fence but when I pressed her to state her real preference she was strongly for retirement. Now that we made the decision I realize it’s the best move. I have asked my branch to send me to San Antonio where we plan to spend my last year in the Army settling into a new house and looking for my first new job in 23 years.